But I'm not going to start singing and telling stories about a fantasy land where dolls come alive and little girls play happily without the use of cell phones or computers.....That is MY fantasy and I go there to get away from the world! I like you and all, but I'm not sure you'd like it in my head. I always knew I was a little different. When I read Johnny Gruelle's The Adventures of Raggedy Ann, I was not shocked that the dolls got up in the night and had adventures on their own! I mean, my dolls had been doing this for years! (When I found that book at our library, I thought it was sweet that someone wrote a book about "my" doll. I honestly thought that for years!) I was also born in the wrong time period. I would have been much better suited to a time when little girls had their dolls but it was up to them and their imagination to make "accessories" and "houses" for them! I was always very good at the "acorn tea cups and dandelion salad on leaf plates" sort of thing! Instead, I was born in the 60's and grew up in a time when everything was plastic. Yes, I had the Barbie Dream House but I was so much happier when The Sunshine Family came on the scene! Yes, still plastic, but more Little House On The Prairie and less Playboy Bunny!
But, inevitably, imagination would take over! The Sunshine Family would become Barbie's kids and my brother's GI Joe would join our team, and any other fashion/play doll anywhere around the same size would become part of the "family". Every year, without fail, I played a recurring game at Christmas time. My own little Advent tradition! It was called "Journey to Christmas Island"! Barbie and her extended family would be on boats (or shoe boxes or bowls, whatever!) and the storm would hit! It would be a raging sea and they would fight to survive! They would have a devastating go at the falls (the stairway) and would end up in a magical world as they landed on Christmas Island (the rug in front of the main windows in the living room where the Christmas tree was put up every year). They would gather themselves, be thankful they all survived, be thankful they didn't lose any of their accessories (every year, every single thing made it safely to the island! amazing!!!), and set up house building their shelter out of the presents under the tree. Elves would appear in the tree (I had a Tinkerbell and a couple of other elf-like dolls and some small teddy bears) and teach them about life on Christmas Island. There would be doll drama, of course, but generally, this game would keep me going all through the Christmas season! My mother was a stickler for everything looking "just right" so, looking back, I am shocked she let this game play out year after year, but I am sure it kept me out of her hair through the holiday season. Small price to pay!
Fast forward. I am a young mother of two little girls, by myself after a divorce, with very little money. One thing we did have: dolls (a lot from my childhood) and lots of imagination! I remember turning a storage closet under the eaves into a playhouse for my little daughter. A sloped, tiny space, not much good for anything else but perfect for a 5 year old to play house with her baby dolls! It fit a small chair and table, a cradle, a little set of shelves! I even strung up a light and hung pictures on the walls! There was no end to the exciting stuff you could find and re-purpose at our local Salvation Army! I started making a lot of things in those days, much more out of necessity than anything else, but I started to see the world through child-like eyes again, seeing new things where other people saw trash. I rescued broken baby dolls, I made skirts from strips of old shirts! It was fun! Money was tight but there was always something new to play with!
I am not saying we didn't save our dimes and order dolls from the Pleasant Company catalog when it came out! In fact, my daughters each had an American Girl (before they were American Girls!) and all their accessories to go along with them! But it was a game back then, saving up our pennies, then sending our order in, and getting that package in the mail! It wasn't anything like it is today! I live in Natick, MA, which is where the American Girl Boston store is located, at the Natick Mall. I even worked there for a little while. My experience doing so is another reason why I decided to write this blog. I was baffled by the indifference of many, little girls and adults alike, to AG as a toy and AG as incredibly expensive. Prices like that shouldn't be "the norm" and dolls shouldn't be "status symbols"! I know that not every family can afford to buy 16 American Girl dolls for their daughter and every single new accessory that comes out. Not everyone wants to scrimp on a part of childhood that can be oh, so special for a little girl either! And I think everyone wishes that girls weren't growing up so fast.
My mission seemed clear. I needed to find a comfortable medium. So, in this blog, I will be reviewing dolls and doll related toys that cost under $50. Every 2 weeks, or so, I will go to a national store (like Target, Wal-Mart, Toys R Us, stores that everyone has near them) and see what dolls are available for under $50. I will review baby dolls, fashion dolls, companion dolls, rag dolls and any of their "sets" or accessories. One week, I may be able to get three dolls for my $50 but other weeks, I will splurge on what might be a birthday gift or Christmas present and buy one "special" doll! I always felt lost when I was a single mom shopping for new toys at Christmas or birthdays because I was so rarely in the stores and didn't know what was new and what was a quality item! It always made me sad when I would splurge and the toy would fall short. I will review dolls in as unbiased a way as I possibly can. (I mean, this is a doll review and I love dolls!!!) I will try and keep in mind the play value and quality of the dolls I review in the age bracket they are designed for. (I know my 4 year old granddaughter is going to love putting on the "white jacket" and stepping into Gram's "laboratory" to be the "visiting scientist" as we go about doing our
I will occasionally have an "interlude" into my own doll collection. I collect all sorts of dolls! I have a wide collection of Raggedy Anns, American Girls, carved wooden Hitty dolls, reborn babies, and much more! I scrimp and save and pinch many pennies to grow my collection so these "interludes" will be few and far between, but sometimes you just get a doll you have to shout about! As I expect my readers to all (mostly) be doll enthusiasts, I think I will be granted the occasional drift into the more expensive side of doll collecting. But the fact is that there are many wonderful dolls out there that are very affordable and will provide hours of imaginative play for little girls, and the young at heart!
I welcome any input! If you have a doll you've been wondering about but don't want to buy without some more investigation, I'd be happy to help! Message me, email me, post a comment! If I can find the doll, I will review her! I am really looking forward to this little experiment of mine! I hope it will be fun to read but also be informative and helpful! That is my mission! And, yes, I accept it......
I LOVE that you wrote this all down. I remember you telling your doll stories to me at the Hitty conference but now I can remember all over. How magical! I'm sooo glad you started this blog. I'll love the reviews but tell some of your wonderful, magical stories too! xxxx0000 Wilhelmna
ReplyDeleteYou are so sweet! I am sure when I go into my "interludes" with my growing collection, more stories will come bubbling up! I am very glad you enjoy them!
DeleteI am following you from the start! how fun is this going to be!!!
ReplyDeleteand I agree with Wilhelmina. share stories too!!
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It sounds so funny: "follow" me! I've never felt like much of a leader! But if you want to join me on this bumpy ride to Blogville, grab on!!! We're gonna have some good fun!!!
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